Black men need to step it up.

How damn TYPICAL is this of (most) Black men?? EXPECIALLY (most) Black men in Atlanta? All that shit they talk is an excuse because they're too lazy to work for a real woman as hard as we'd work for them. Too many times women fall victim to the excuses. They'd rather fuck a whore/groupie/golddigger/thirsty chick than come home every day to a woman who adores THEM, not their job, dick, or material possessions. SMH Check this out and tell me if you can relate.. women AND men.




*DISCLAIMER* I'm WELL aware that we women have our faults as well, but for right now I'm focusing specifically on male faults. So please don't hit me with the "Well shit you talk about us but WOMEN do this to and blahzay blah blah." I KNOW. Women suck too and make the good women look bad. (Hence the whore/groupie/golddigger/thirsty chicks I mentioned earlier.)


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  1. AnonymousOctober 30, 2010 at 1:19 AM

    It's as simple as this. The caricature of a woman in the vid was the Antithesis of what you are. She had the man with a realistic approach and goals in life with the hopes to come home to her everyday for the rest of his life. She decided that wasn't good enough, and became the Groupie. That Groupie LOST that one.

    And honestly Essence, this happens in reality with relationships of ANY race.

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